>>19021939best way to get going with love life is to focus entirely on your own self improvement. Once you are rolling with good self improvement your confidence will spike and conversation will become easier. The less you worry about how others see you the more you are able to talk to them efficiently.
People have a few simple things that actually decide on whether they like you.
The goal is too get to a point where can easily grind without anxiety from being shot down but instead look at it as 'oh that didn't work so what do we need to get where we want?' It is the anxiety of failure that keeps people from finding others to be with.