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I used to be a (black) femcel. Now I’m a mega Stacy. Here’s how you turn things around.
The reality is that as women the way our face looks matters much less than our bodies. Use makeup if you have bad skin. 99% of the time you do NOT need plastic surgery. If you do then save up for it and get it, but I’m telling you it’s probably not needed.
I am 34 years old, black, and I have a rotation of wealthy Chads at my beck and call, not to mention all the orbiters. I can marry and have kids if I want, but I don’t and never have.
Seriously consider what marriage and kids means for your life. You have to wake up to the same man literally every day... Not every day for a few weeks, or a few months, or a couple of years, but for life. Realistically you will get tired of him. I have never wanted children. If you do then there’s no reason you can’t have them, although you should aim to have your first before 40.
Anyway, up until my early 30s I was a complete femcel. 100 pounds overweight (in my mid 20s I was skinny, but had no confidence. Weight creeped on over the years). Never had a boyfriend, never had a man love or adore me, only had a couple of guys who used and abused me before leaving. When I was 31 I became tired of feeling sorry for myself and decided to change.
I changed my diet overnight. I ate less food in general and no junk at all. Exercised every day. Only put good things into my body.
I blocked out the negativity from society and men. Men are jealous of women so they do everything they can to keep us down, but ultimately we have all the power. You have to block them out. You have to understand that as women we are superior to men. They exist to serve us and when we act as if we are inferior to them they get angry and punish us with abuse. This is why “nice girls finish last” and men love bitches. It’s the natural order.
