>>7273608What makes matters worse is too many men believe women operate mentally the same way as men. We don’t. Evolution didn’t stop with titties and puss.
While for men the primary objective in life is feeling happy (eating & drinking, constructive work or interests, following a political/spiritual/philosophical path, having sex, enjoying good times with friends and family, freedom from want, succeeding, etc.) women want to feel EVERYTHING. Happiness, sadness, rage, jealousy, etc. Women are hardwired for neuroticism.
They are basically all low-level cluster B (bipolar, borderline, histrionic, etc.). Women who freaked out and made a fuss over every little thing tended to make better moms than stoic women who quietly ignored little grug jr. about to play with a snake. “Think of the children!” and all that.
But the point of the matter is that too many betas assume women are like men.
>If I JUST make her happy enough!>If I’m JUST a “good” man!>If I’m JUST devoted enough to her!They don’t understand that women want men to put them on a never ending emotional rollercoaster heavily dependent on their ovulation cycle.
That’s the closest thing a woman can come to “happiness”.
