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Its pretty simple:
If you're a man, be a responsible, mature adult with gainful employment, a sense of humor, hobbies, a life outside of any relationship with a woman you may have, a good attitude, and treat women with respect.
Do that, and any man can find a decent meaningful relationship with a woman regardless of his appearance. I cannot tell you how many attractive women I see out with pudgy goofy looking men simply because those guys have a sense of humor, a job, and live functional stable adult lives.