>>17557608nta but its not necessarily about getting laid.
Your appearance is like skins in video games, if you don't have a few good skins everyone knows that you don't care about the game and are likely a total noob. Nobody wants to be on the team with the kid with default skins, because objectively speaking there's a high probability he sucks at the game and everything he does.
Good skins = good players.
Its the same in real life, but your fitness is your skins and training is your microtransactions.