>>21415008>I think there are a few reasons most dudes aren't getting laidThere are. I wish to share mine. Turned 18 right as Tinder had already been out for 4/5 years. So online dating had just started to peak. I am an outlier on this board I actually was very well liked and social in my teens, involved in track, theatre (so many fans tho acting and storytelling are cool) and had a modicum of respect. Was pursued, and went on first dates with 15 maybe even 20 girls if I think hard on it during high school, went to Prom 3 times dances etc.
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>I watched my classmates I respected sign up the second they turned 18>actually two girls I liked from Student Council had tinder at 17 so that's sick>but they signed up at 18 ready to fuck and message older strangers>years of bonding, memories, commonalities meant nothing to "fun new exciting" college guys who got sex from them easier than I did >(lost my virginity senior year to a theatre girl at another school KEK actually I'm part of problem she DMed me on Instagram at the time and we dated for 3 months, broke up over a fight where I showed up at her house on new years concerned cause she called off plans and got wine drunk in her hot tub after a parental argument. Silly. Of me too. Anyway)>any girl who didn't, I am rounding down btw, fuck a collective 7 guys and message 50 off these apps just got railed in college anyway>watched girls be PROUD of hookups. With guys they knew wouldn't ever commit. And then be "broken hearted about it" but earnestly they were bragging to their other hoes.I watched girls become Men. They have sex like Men now. And I was just raised with a different value system. I wanted monogamy and cuddles and to fuck her crazy sure but maybe in that order. It's so offputting. It's so wrong. To be expected to be sensitive and caring as a guy is already a rarity and luxury I could provide.
