>>529802Anon I haven't gotten to do this in /bant/ yet so bare with me as you're my first.
I graduated in 2014 from WSU with a Bachelors of Science in Developmental Psychology so I'm going to try to help you out here.
Take it how you will.
>24>never had friends/date/virginThis is an inconsequential way to gauge your life's worth. Don't listen to everyone giving you a hard time that you haven't popped your cherry yet. Some people don't lose it until they're 35 and married. In the end if you never procreate or lose your virginity nobody of worth is going to blast you for it. Focus on this less as another person isn't going to make you happy if you can't first make yourself happy and nobody is going to like you if you can't like yourself. First steps.
>played guitar for 15 years, still shitI'm sure you're just being dramatic and hard on yourself. Musical talent is all relative. Sure you might not be playing through the fire and the flames but compared to someone who only has played for a few months you probably look like Jimmy Hendrix. This is something you have to come to terms with. Either it's a skill worth the time you're putting into it or you're just not cut out for it. There's no real need to play an instrument and if it's what you like doing then do it. If you're not getting fulfillment from it and it's becoming detrimental to your well being then you should take a break. Try to get some perspective by posting you playing on Vocaroo and asking some anons how you could improve. Feedback is very important to artists.
>played piano for 4 years, still can't play itSee above.
>gym for 9 years, no significant gainsThis could be a dietary concern, improper technique or lack of frequent visits. This is another thing you shouldn't gauge your life's worth on. Only those who care about you will care how you look and they're just worried about your health.
>work a shit job that doesn't pay shitThen you'll need to find another job.
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