>>10570681that's your insecurity talking. I've had "chads" at the gym show me a workout when I started lifting. Most of them are friendly and glad to see people improving. They all had to start somewhere, so they don't judge you for your weight size. You don't have to be arrogant to care about your body, that's jewish bs.
>>10570688idk what kind of chads you've met, but someone who lifts is more confident being themselves because they look good, not because they read some book, or watched some retarded pick up artist video. When you look good, you get attention from women, and that makes you feel good. You're more comfortable being yourself, and don't have to be as closed off. Seriously anon, I think you'd find it would only improve your life. You don't have to change who you are, just give yourself the body you deserve. It takes a lot of hard work, but it really is worth it in the end.