>>18080556>>18080580Aight assuming this isn't bait:
If you feel useless, become useful. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who is an asset, someone who actually makes your life easier if she steps into it.
Why not ask your mother for some cooking advice if that's what you want to do?
Second, its not necessarily about virginity. Obviously if you can stay with the person you lost your virginity to, then that's great but if it doesn't, oh well.
You're not a roastie for dating, or having had boyfriends with long term intentions. You aren't sleeping around like crazy, you aren't devaluing yourself by handing yourself around like a piece of meat. You seem to be looking for commitment and that's a good thing. You do not stop being high value if you sleep with a guy you're committed to, you stop being high value the second you no longer value that commitment, because it literally means that you value access to yourself at the price of a drink and a few kind words.
>>18080580You do not lose your value as soon as you lose your virginity. You do not lose your value after some magic age number, you lose your value the second that you're willing to whore yourself around and engage in pointless hedonism.
Roasties do not suddenly become valueless when they hit the wall, they were already worthless before, they only realized it when men stopped paying attention to them. Nobody wants to put a ring on a gym mat and at age 35 no one wants to sleep with one anymore either.
So stop worrying, make the most out of it, but aim for that kind of relationship.
