>>16632398There's four stages
>Care about what others think of you (women included.)>Pretend you don't care>Lie to yourself and convince yourself you don't care>Truly don't careThat's when you reach ultimate happiness. Funny thing is, when you reach the final stage, people are attracted to you.
Your biggest mistake would be to reach the final stage so people would notice you. It would be quite paradoxal and either that wish will have to go or you'll never reach the final stage.
For example, I haven't had a hair cut in 8 months and I never wash my hair with shampoo. I look like a filthy hobo. Yet, I have a girlfriend and she's pregnant with my seed.