>>7106973That's an interesting way to look at it..
I don't think I agree though. Self-hatred does not have to consume you. If you accept the situation and don't wallow in your own misery it is just a thing that is there. There are many things I hate, but can not get away from, and myself is just another one of those things. It isn't something I usually dwell on.
>How can you hurt the ones who love you with self-mutilation and still say you love them?This is... Hmm, difficult to answer. Usually I try to just not reveal things like that. At least for me, I would rather suffer in silence than make others suffer with me. But it also can be hard to be alone sometimes.
I am a hypocrite though because I wouldn't want anyone else to do that. Is that bad? Eh, probably, I don't know.