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Any advice would be appreciated. My brother is infertile so him and his wife cant have kids, but are always trying. He's really become depressed and just kinda sad. Developed OCD tendencies. Drinks a lot more. I dont know what to do anymore to help him. It's been a few years now and he's not taking any of my advice to get better. I know he knows he has to get right mentally and stop drinking but he never does it. He has shit will power and I'm starting to get frustrated with him. It's starting to take it's toll on me now because im constantly worried about him and want him to be happy, but now it's affecting my own life. So much of my days are wasted thinking about him and getting caught up in my own head on what else I can try on him. He obviously just doesn't care to help him self and if that's the case nobody else can help him. Unfortunately, I'm starting to realize I may have to take a long arm approach and try and comfort/help him from a distance because i've put off my own life for 2-3 years now. I haven't dated the whole time or changed careers like I wanted because im so mentally spent from him. Sorry for the word vomit. If anyone has any advice i'd love to hear it.