>>11878402No such thing as too big!
>A E P H E B O P H I L I AThe thinking man's version of paedophilia?
>but it didn't equal to zero like in my hsWait, if you had none in yours and barely any in the entire country then why did the girls...
>the only times others said I was acting normal was when I was hot blood on drugsStrange of anybody to say that. But what do your friends see you as? As in, from their point of view, why do they see you as a friend?
>I'm afraid to break it but I don't think I could have any other relationship other than the codeoemdant one, so the only manner that could functionThe codependant one? That is what any healthy relationship should be like, but yours is only artificially so. And as long as only you make the rules there is no real codependence.
>if I were to do solve everything and anything fof her I'd be nothinf more than a crutch and vice versa, that is not healthyBut you don't have to solve anything in her stead, you only have to be supportive of her in times of need. You say that it's not your problem but it very much does become your problem too if you are sincere about wanting to share your life with somebody. Otherwise, like I said, what's the point? You use her for your needs but what about her needs?
>we cam't pretend to blind in denial saying that significant other is the hottest being in thd universeAnd nobody said we should. As far as only looks are concerned, there will always be someone prettier, no matter how pretty a woman already is. No matter how handsome a man already is. That being said, not saying "how this guy or that guy is hot" is just common courtesy, the other might be insecure about his or her looks. So why hurt them? You say that transparency and bluntness are virtues and I do agree to an extent, but either of those will just drive people away or embitter them if you lack tactfulness. From your experience, how many people did appreciate your bluntness?
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