>>12745641>K. You bring the coke, in glass bottles none of that faggot can shit.For sure!
That's good advice anon. I'm not on the market, but the duality you speak of is something I have cultivated myself.
I'm quite a hard, verbally confrontational person. That side is always apparent with me, I don't mince words, and always speak my mind. So I can be a bit difficult sometimes.
I'm very meticulous, and I find great pleasure in surprising my love with thoughtful gestures and little tokens of appreciation. My g/f has never recieved flowers before, but I've made sure to make her accustomed to it. Nothing like her smile when I reveal the bouquet behind my back.
Also try to lift her up, make sure she has space to grow. I can be overbearing, so I try to keep a check on myself.
Was sitting by my dad's death bed last week, stayed there for two days straight until he went. She was there to support me when I didn't have much left to give dad. Realized later that evening that she probably had lots of feelings and thoughts to deal with too, so made sure to have her talk about her experience during the day, and after we hung out for a few days I stressed that we both needed alone time. And that she should talk to her mother or the like about the experience, since I surmised it might be hard for her to really grieve and deal with hers, while she was in my presence.
In all my percieved cool and calculating demeanor, I make sure she knows she has a special place with me, that's exclusive for family and always welcoming.
