>>20889236I lift at home but it’s luxury for people who can have home gyms (real home gyms). There is nothing subversive about getting into shape. A gym provides a less costly alternative to access equipment. Iv been lifting for many many years and in my experience, I got the most attention from women when I was 175ish at 10% body fat. I was benching at very least, 50 pounds over my weight. I stopped caring after to much after a few years in that state. Women were easier but not that much easier, and after going out on dates I realized I don’t want a girlfriend. It started to be a drag, I had to plan around them and they interfered with routines and personal time. I had one girl who was totally fine just relaxing together and playing games watching movies but the rest were only there to steal my attention
