>>16956520i was born in 1986. the question asked who hurt me which encompasses my entire life, so if it sounded that way to you it was me recollecting what i've been through. to me people in their early 20's are still immature and don't even realize it yet. think they got it figured out but there really is something to time and experience. i'm only alive because of some of the things i've tried to describe. some people mean you harm and earn your animosity. but it can all be more trouble than its worth and the best thing for everyone is to let it go. from people you think were friends, peers at school, coworkers, randos you cross paths with in your daily life. people can be rude or mean you harm. its probably best to avoid causing people harm because of how they may react. i think the trick in life is avoiding trouble, conflict, controversy, drama. and you can break that feedback loop depending on how you decide to react. if anything i've probably learned more than a lot of people my age or even older. not sure why you'd think i was in my 20's. heck i'm a father and an uncle to many.