>>13408715Then take your own goal into account. They are not you, you are not them.
You obviously aren't gay, so keep on ignoring the guys, but the women likely don't realize what being a homunculus is like. Women will say they know what they want, but what they really want is on the subconscious level. And what they want is different from what men want. This is because men and women think and act differently on the fundamental level.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rkZvLHiaHQc Like I said, trying to be a woman is about as far from attractive to women as you can get. Your best bet is to settle. And given that you are a guy in your 40s, you are already more attractive to women than women in your group are to men. There is no benefit to transitioning, only drawbacks.
