>>11104976My memory is mostly visual so I don't have to look at a picture for a prolonged period of time in order to retain its details.
>importang question is: is it a coping mechanism or are people just stoopidThat's what I was getting at. It's a coping mechanism. Now I don't know if they are conscious of it or not. Perhaps this is why they require therapists. The conclusions which seem obvious to some may not be so for others. But I agree, actions are what matter in the end.
>a single thing can greatly improve one's quality of life and to siggest otherwise due to personal discomfort or inconveniance is actually kind of willfully ignorrang in and of itselfWhile I do agree with that as an idea, I don't see how porn of all things would be life changing. You can't compare that to vaccines which cure deadly diseases or to electricity, for example. What I am trying to ask is why is it so important to you? I'm not patronising you for it, it's a geniune question.
>if you tried to force that trud love wins over urges or like a perverted slob if vice versaGood stories don't force anything on you, they present you both sides of the argument, let you see the good and bad of the conclusions and the rest is up to you.
Let's not focus on the smut half, that's not what I want the most. But while I am certain that you do, I also suspect that this is what Aussy is the most interested in as well...