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Serious thread if i am doing something wrong, posting this here really to hear more extreme points of view:
I am 38 (white) with 3 kids (twins boy and girl, 9 and another older girl, 14). I am a software developer and my wife (35) works for an insurance firm. I am somewhat conservative in my views in general (i genuinly dislike niggers/immigrants but if they are actual nice people i would not care).
Now this is about my older daughter who is badly hiding her intimate relationship with another girl. I dont mind gay people at all, very much dislike every trany tho. But i would still not like my daugther to waste her life and not have a family of her own, even if she adopted kids, gay couples NEVER work out.
Now the dilemma i am in is that i am a avid fan of lesbian shipping and show (Watched The owl house recetnly with my kids, i can reccomend it) and i read teen lesbian fanfiction of cartoons all the time, i even reccomended my daugther quite a few good ones. Not sexual ones, i have read very few sexual fanfics (as a side theme) i just like the angst and the build up of the storys with the realizations of their own feelings.
How do i explain to my daughter that she should leave that as a fantasy and not pursue it in real life? My wife i happy with it since she is an avid lesbian fanfic reader herself.