>>22083555feel bad for you so i'll help you with a few verses.
proverbs 26:4-5 is the most appropriate. is it better for you to play their foolish game in order to rebuke them? or is it better to be the bigger person? scripture provides no answer, merely describes the choices you make. worth a ponder any time disagreements come up.
another is pic related, if you're looking for good strats, this one is time-tested and a lot better than whatever you're describing.
repairing a relationship is better than trying to fling barbs. you can't take back hurtful words. just read this thread for proof.
