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look at it this way: objectively speaking, there was a period of time, which was millions of years, before you were ever born. call this period "years before i was born" and recognize this to yourself. then recognize that you didn't know or have any relation to these "family members" during that time period, because you didn't exist.
so why the fuck does it matter that these people exist now. it's all emotion. who cares about your dad who left. he left. leave it at that. you're doing OK now and he wasn't there for you. who cares if you have a half-sister that you know about. what about all the potential half sibs you *don't* know about.
in 1000 years, none of this matters and no one will give a fuck about you or your familial relations. so just enjoy your life now and try to do what makes you happy. fuck all this family nonsense. who cares.
that's just my way of seeing things. not trying to be nice. most likely you won't have the IQ to understand all this, but it is objectively true that before you were born, you had no connection to these people called your parents, you had no choice in the matter of beiing born to them, so who cares if they are now your parents, and one of them is a scumbag. just leave it at that. fuck his facebook messages. fuck everything. go live your life.
