>>18946778Why do you need to approach girls if they're coming to you?
If you want to approach girls, you just need to formulate some excuse to talk to them, ranging from something extremely generic like "Do you come here often?" to some specific comment or compliment like "I like your Lion pendant; are you a Leo?". The painful thing about approaching is getting your hopes crushed, so you have to maintain a "what happens, happens" attitude. At the end of the day, you can't force a woman to like you, so it's really just a matter of "finding" a good match rather than "getting" a woman.