>>11843957One has to consider the former standard to understand this. Normally I would easily have went to uni etc as I got best grades without doing anything. Imagine if that's your son and someday he just stops going to school. Then skips more and more and then someday goes into a psych ward for 4 months. I assume most parents wild give up in these circumstances because the standards were very high. There are parents Who never give up but these are mostly good parents