>>3138830"Dating" is what you do to determine whether a woman is a good fit for marriage.
"Marriage" is what you do when you are committing to a stable two-parent household environment for children.
"Having children" is what you do with women younger than 30 (unless you want them to come out looking like this).
It isn't possible to "date" a 35 year old woman.
You can only have sex with them.