>>10216785They'll only take those suicidal teens seriously once they have done the deed. That being said, I don't think that a person who truly is serious about it would reveal anything to anyone else. They wouldn't want to be stopped. The attention whores are doing a disservice to the people who really are in danger. Same goes for depression. No one really takes them seriously anymore. And many of those who do are pretending anyway, so that they can feel better about themselves, that they are good people and they are helping.
>it's time to stopI work out 4-5 times per week, an hour each session, if that helps.
A muscular body and a handsome face won't solve many problems if you ask me. This is what the incels can't seem to get into their heads. You will get attention, sure, but that attention is the equivalent of being told "ey bb u won sum fuk" as a woman. The girls who are any good, those who want a serious, long-lasting relationship and commitment are probably not found in clubs or on tinder and I don't think they would initiate. And if you have crippling shyness, you won't either.
I forgot where I was going with this. Why would a girl care that much about your body? You are a very interesting guy. I think that should matter more to any girl who wants something serious. In theory. Then again, I have no real experience so all this might be a bunch of nonsense you only see in visual novels.
>Reimu is a black man in his fortiesThat sounds like a good approach to me. I think that it might be very important to let the girl know what your intentions are. Compliments might work (and speaking of compliments, they seem to be the hardest part, I would just freeze if I had to compliment a girl, although all of this might be because I have no exercise nor drive).
So if you do all these things, then where are the problems? Getting a haircut plus new clothes plus shaving might fix most of the problem. You were kissed by a girl once, which means you are far from repulsive.