>>9009557this is actually a good mind trick which will help you to put things back into a rational perspective. just imagine her taking a big fat stinking dump and then re-think why you have formed a certain image of that particular woman in your mind and whether she is really worth this much of your attention or you maybe have formed an completely unrealistic image in your mind because you will sooner or later find out that your projection of her as a person is completely devoid of actual reality especially once you get to know her
