>>20399978the dude clearly isn't whatever you're thinking of when you say incel when he is having baby making sex with a woman
>selfish tbqhjust because you're miserable doesn't mean everyone else is. male attractiveness has more to do with healthiness, social status, and wealth than it does physical appearance. fat slobs can convince women to sleep with him just by having charisma, aka deceptive signalling competence and high status.
"looks-match" assortative mating is not real.
>Specifically, Feingold (1988) found significant meta-analytic correlations for both third-party observed (0.39) and self-reported (0.27) physical attractiveness between opposite-sex romantic partners. Mean correlations between observed and self-reported physical attractiveness were the same for both men (0.24) and women (0.24) 