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QRD
>Wife wants to contribute less to our monthly expenses
>tell her that fundamentally alters the nature of our relationship from an equal partnership to me subsidizing her
>she tells me she didn't think it was a subsidy because she is my wife
>I pop off at her yelling that I don't have a choice to lower my contribution and it's fundamentally unfair and she should either get more money from her work or find a better job if she wants to keep her lifestyle
>she gets upset and starts crying
>I lay out to her in no uncertain terms our position and what I expect out of our relationship
>she's probably crying upstairs now
What gives?