>>9591381Also, attempt to learn the local language, local because SEA consists out of ethnic groups before it consists out of countries and people will often speak their local dialect next to the national language. Don't learn because you're interested in glorious traditions and culture, learn so you know what the hell they're saying, cus that way you'll learn what they really think of you and learn their motivations of keeping you around. Also, these people are often trad af(their culture, not yours) and concepts like insurances and elderly homes are alien to them (personally I think elderly homes and daycare centers are degenerate af, nobody cares enough about your folks or children to give them the care they need, except you and your family). This means, keeping the family happy, sending money and goods home on a frequent basis, more than you think. Remember to talk about this with her, remember that you set the limit and not them, make this very clear to her from the start! And do it with a smile :) but be FIRM!... Off topic: I'm still pissed that Crack Anon didn't break through those doors, I've fckin told him there's tons of free crack behind them but he's too much of a puss.