>>10460408>get heart broken once >feel like you've had whole world torn apart at the time>focus on yourself, get /fit/, /lit/, & /fa/ >become Chad>opportunities start popping up all the time >accidentally find yourself in relationship It's the only way, faggots. Gotta get that one, really good heartbreak in there first to help you keep perspective and not seem too desperate and then your entire world changes in a year or so.