>>9868981If you just punch her because you got mad then yeah you're horrible. But having spankings be a part of the relationship can be healthy. Like with punishing kids, it's really important that you explain why they are being punished, why the rule you are enforcing matters, and having them understand what they should do differently in the future. Then afterward comfort her and affirm that you know she will do better in the future.
Basically, you can do it in a loving but firm way. If it makes sense to her it shouldn't lead to resentment. Mutual respect is the backbone of family, and physical discipline can be part of that.
Though most likely it will be the man, I see no reason that a wife with a male spirit and a husband with a female spirit can have the inverted dynamic. But that is rare.
