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But still, involving yourself too deeply with any one poster will just make you frustrated and miserable, so better just stay only on the safe side and not penetrate too far into things that you won't easily be able to hold control over.
Focus more on finding what is better for you first, even if it means not everything around you will be able to be perfect.
As a very idealistic minded person, I know the feeling of hopelessness brought about by knowing that not everything will be able to adjust itself to your plans or world vision, but I put my hopes behind the idea that every person ought to be able to at least be in control over decisions relating to themselves, and that they should be capable of acting in such a way that is at least likely to be of doing what they believe is good for their person.