>>2986329I've lost 6 family members in 2 years, including my Grandfather and Great Grandmother (she was 102 years old).
Shit's rough, but the little bit of silver lining you have is that she's still around. Yes, she might not be doing well, but you can still spend time with her and make the best of it.
My grandfather went in for what was supposed to be a routine surgery, and then never woke up and died 10 hours later. Shit was extremely unexpected.
Not saying it's easier, but anything you can do that 10 years from now you'll think "That was a hard time, but damn I did what I could." then you should do it bro.