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Losing someone when they are young is always a burn because in a strange sense they become immortal. She will always be this young and pure figure in your memories no matter where life takes you.
Visiting a persons grave is actually good for you because it both lets you grieve while also giving you the extremely important reminder that they are indeed dead and the dead never return. This hurts at first, but also helps you move on. Just remember that the dead, if they could speak, would tell you that look back on those they leave behind with just as many regrets.