>>21274532It's normal for a woman to not want to be watched like that because most women are neurotic, insecure messes by their nature. The reason their bedroom is "dead" is because she isn't attracted to him, most likely because he's an impotent, placating pussy who's more worried about making her feel respected in low-effort ways that don't matter than making her feel secure in the hands of a competent, dominant man. If that means eyefucking her at times she doesn't want it, do it. Women don't want you to piss out and give them everything they want. Their desire is to have aligned needs with somebody who can take what he wants. Going against what she wants when necessary demonstrates that you're not a whipped pussy nervously dodging getting snapped at by a 100lb girl.