>>18271255What she means is they don't dress fashionably. Men in their 30s on these apps fall into two camps, those looking for women under 30 and those over 30. No guy looking for a '34' year old is putting in a lot of effort or dressing like an influencer. She's tired of dudes in New Balance shoes and baseball caps, somehow not realizing that she's aged out of the guys who give a shit.