>>5725902marring a widow can be good. why would anyone give you hell because of it, because you are giving a chance to an child to be raised up outside of single parent nest?
Marring a single parent that got divorced is whole different story. Not because the side you ended up with might be responsible for divorce and have same faith looming above yer head. But because that child will always have "real parent", and the child will always use it as leverage to do as it pleases. Best to stay away from those scenarios.