>>14171364What I mean by not being able to self-reflect: A fish doesn't know it's a fish.
Also, something you should consider: You are the update, genetically speaking; the next version. Pinnacle of evolution in your genetic lineage. Though I get that the point of a parent is to teach you to survive in this world, since you yourself have zero knowledge / skills when you are born.
My father didn't really teach me stuff either, the knowledge and skills (electronics, travelling, camping, fishing, amateur radio operators stuff, machining ) etc went to my older siblings. So I had to learn everything myself. And now that I look back my father was SIMP, the amount of pussy worship I heard from him makes me cringe even to this day, like being around a beautiful woman was the end-all-be-all.. Like their mere presence and smile was enough..
But it's mistake men often make: men construct an idealized and an idolized version of a female, a frame to which they are trying to push women they meet into. It's also a filter which makes them blind to things to beyond the set parameters (look up:confirmation bias)
Society in general runs on men's naivety, gullibility and blindness towards women's true nature.
See what's happening when men are waking up to how women really are now that women aren't hiding it anymore.