>>5295131Don't be afraid of all that. Because then you'll hook up with a woman for all the wrong reasons. Just focus on finding one that you like and likes you back. Pay close attention to what kind of character she has. Treat her like a lady and see how she responds. If she treats you like a gentlemen, proceed. Do NOT sit there and focus on fears. You will see past huge red flags for the sake of being with a woman/having kids/satisfying your fears. Just go with the flow.