>>21579518I've never considered refusing to hit women but I have definitely seen what happens to men who take that route. It's not pretty. Look, the method doesn't matter much as long as you aren't hitting like a woman would. We aren't talking about beating women, that is fucked up and serves no higher purpose. I prefer to give them a light punch in the arm to show that my 10% is her 110%. If they leave over that they are lesbians. If they stay then they respect you and wont play bitch games with you too often, unless they are borderline psychos, in which case it's up to you how much you enjoy crazy.