>>22704083no. if you leave right now without saying anything, you get partial custody. if you stay, your reward is a restraining order and she gets full custody and therefore child support and you will have an impossible time getting a real marriage while paying child support and jumping through hoops to visit your children. the best thing you can do for you family is leave. you are not better than the other men who leave. you are not the government. the government made the law and you must live under it. God hates the french, but He does not hate you personally, unless you refuse to do what you have to do for your family because you think youre better than those other men who leave