>>17203307Dunno. When i visit instagram, which is not often though, i sent messages to whonever i want without second thought how they will react. I do so because I WANT to write them. She mocked you? Fine. You did nothing wrong, just followed your heart(and dick). That means your good intentions were just wasted on the likes of her, move along until you find another, which you will want to write to.
When you go into spiral of thought "how it would look", "do it will make me a simp", "is that message is cool enough" you are already lost.