>>8590747I can get horny by fantasizing about whatever, but it takes a lot to get me really horny. First I need to not cum for two or three days (which is next to impossible for me, one day I can do sometimes but often I literally can't sleep unless I masturbate), then I need to play some sort of elaborate game with myself that involves me suffering in various ways irl, I've got an electro torture sex toy, I used to be pretty big on ballbusting but I've stopped that now for fear of damaging them, similar deal with chastity but I don't mind it over short durations... Sometimes I like to pretend I'm a slave and force myself to do chores non-stop. Even if I do all that stuff I can't garentee I'd get super horny, my libido is frustratingly low sometimes.
Maybe I should find a fuckbuddy to do BDSM stuff with but ehhhh I have no motivation to do anything that requires any amount of effort tbdesu. I'm not even sure it'd fix my problem unless I mesh with them perfectly anyway.
