>>17920882Okay, enough! Enough, Estonia! Enough. I don't know who's paying you to post demoralization of this scale or whether you have just taken the incel pill but it's just not reality. The truth is that internet doesn't provide you the truth. What it does is it magnifies the worst aspects of humanity and normalizes it to the point that it starts skewing your reality.
I literally started self-improving couple years ago and I instantly started getting girls and I don't have any germanic chad looks or any muscle. I think that after equality, people have become more confused at the prospects of increased freedom & agency. In the past the world was more simpler & now it's more complex. You actually have to understand women now to get them. But it's not impossible. And I do think that anons embrace defeatism partly to take responsibility of their shoulders, because we have been babied.
But the moment I started taking care of myself and started going out, the girls accepted me asking them out just like that. It's not hard once you understand how it works & after you've had little successes. And after I had mine, I ditched the incel pill and the experience increased my confidence to ridiculous heights.
What you need to get girls is to have positive self-esteem rooted in the belief that you are worthy of girls or friends or whatever. And it is a choice, because without that choice, you lack the courage to do the hard things that matter in life. But when you accept that you are in fact, a great guy, you start carrying yourself in a way that is hot to girls. You gain ridiculous amount of confidence to the point any of the things that were previously frightening is now just a mere challenge.
To any of the anons reading, this -- there is hope. I'm just pissed at the demoralization going on this board. THERE IS HOPE! I used to lurk & now I have gf.
