>>13453565>save yourself fully until marriage.I am 24 and I don't know how to flirt without making girls deeply uncomfortable. All the money and bodily health and sense of humor in the world (which I know I have for the first two, and II'm pretty sure I have for the second) won't fix that. No virtuous woman has ever seen me as romantically desirable.
My point is that "until marriage" at this point is either going to be forever, or until I am well past the prime of my life, such that the best parts of marriage, that is young love, will be robbed of me. This appears to be completely hopeless.
No amount of self improvement is going to work, because I know for a fact that guys way worse than me in those aspects that I understand have deep loving relationships at much younger ages than me. There is something beyond wealth and status and health that I just don't understand, that makes love, much less marriage, likely impossible.
Telling me to abstain from pornography for the sake of love that is probably never going to come seems ridiculous.
