>>14858682Women will never love you unconditionally.
A lot of personal heartache would have been avoided had I seen this.
As soon as we signal that we no longer have our shit together, we could lose her, and ‘love’ will have nothing to do with it.
‘Love’ relies on many variables being in place, from self-confidence to your access to resources and demonstrating your ability to provide, to holding your emotional frame.
You are not entitled to her because you both have heartbeats.
She is earned (and so are you).
Happiness is a choice.
Happiness is never conditional on your life being a certain way.
You don’t suddenly become ‘happy’ when you reach a particular milestone.
