>>1717791OP there's nothing wrong with being a full time dad. Raising your kids and doing it well is one of the most virtuous things you can do with your life and if she has more earning power than you, so be it. That's how you are able to raise your kids in the best environment possible and send them to a nice and white private school. Giving your kids better than what you got is the noblest endeavor you can take up.
So what if the roles are swapped? You can take a job as a part time personal trainer and stay in shape. Running the house isn't such a bad thing either. Learn how to cook and cook what you like to eat. You're in control in other ways.