>>5454188I hear you. The grey man concept is what you should go for. Advertising that you have resources and firearms is rarely a good idea, unless it's as a show of force when part of a larger group.
Here's some of my gear, but I'm part of the reserves. My civilian gear is almost the same, only toned down (i.e. a IIIA vest under clothes instead of a IV plate carrier on top).
What firearms I carry would also change depending on the situation.