>>14579013Nothing! You shouldn't coddle nor take care of your family, because that is how you end up with lazy fucks who don't do anything for themselves.
If you are a man, your role isn't to have them suckle your tit, but rather give them the drive and information needed that they can take care of themselves.
If you have no faith in them to do so, then simply tell them "I have no faith in your ability to take care of yourself" and then give them money that they will piss away because you never taught them to fish.
