>>4254119But with fear comes potential to overcome. When one defeats fear they come out wise and brave and even if they never learn to defeat this fear, the individuality of the person is assured, they will have their faults. This is what makes a person wonderful. Imperfections in a person is what truely makes them unique and in a way charming to those who compliment their flaws. Bad decisions, fear, sadness and the like all contribute to our self-knowledge and wisdom, refining us and building character